Saturday 10 September 2011

Too Many Questions...

Im asking these questions because two people who are close to me recently separated with their partners. I won't go into details as they are private, and I'm sure they won't appreciate me sharing it here.

I wonder what makes a person so in love one day, fall out of it the next? Do you just wake up one day and realise that love is no longer there?

How do you know that you've made the right decision? How do you know you're not confused? How do you really know that you won't regret breaking up? How can one be sure?

I guess for me, the most important question is what I could do to make them feel a little bit better? I don't even know what to say....  Buy I want them to know that you're in my thoughts & I'm wishing for the pain to go away.....


Why does it take a minute to say hello and forever to say goodbye?

14 comments:

  1. :-( It happens. Things fall apart, even love.

    Fickle Cattle
    ficklecattle.blogspot.com

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  2. tignan natin in the future, kasi nga hnd nmn sila maghihway ng ganun ganun lang, may valid reason talaga yan. hehehe. if meant to be talga sila, magkakabaikan sila, pero kapag hnd. they should go on wth their life

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  3. so many questions, but the answers are so few. :)

    btw, i've tagged you on this post
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  4. yeah t'was so sad sissy... =( especially on the childrens lives..sigh...

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  5. you just have to be beside them, kahit wala kang sabihin basta andyan ka lang.. it'll help. mahirap talaga mag-isip ng masasabi kasi we don't know how they really feel.
    a couple so close to me recently broke up too, after 7 years, and it was so sad! but in time i know kung sila talaga, they will still end up together!

    -Macy
    www.maccyy.blogspot.com

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  6. I know where you're coming from. I do have close friends who had to undergo the same thing and it's really sad. Although, to one of my friends, I am glad she's finally free from the husband...it was a very difficult situation since they have a daughter. But everyone knows this is better for both of them

    Spanish Pinay

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  7. "Why does it take a minute to say hello and forever to say goodbye?" <--- :( korek!

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  8. sad.); hmm, napakasubjective ng mga questions na yan. the couple involved should ask themselves those questions.. napakahirap lang sagutin. hays

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  9. Hi Sis,! As much as I wanted to give you an answer hindi ko din alam. I also asked that questions about a year ago. Maybe it's because of the factors around them but only the people involved could answer or maybe even them, hindi masagot ang tanong. For sure there's a reason behind, kung nao yun, we don't know yet!

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  10. It's one of the things that I fear in a relationship. When one of the other or the both of them fell out of love... My parents did. And I'm still in the middle of asking this question... People fall in love and they fall out of it. Sana ganun lang ka-simple.

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  11. May tendency na ang mag asawa e mag grow apart overtime. Some relationships don't last maybe because they aren't really meant to be in the first place. Pero hanggat masosolusyunan ang problema, kailangn i work out talaga para di mag end sa hiwalayan.

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  12. there are just things in this life that don't work out, love is one of them. people change, suddenly biglang iba na ang gusto nila, suddenly di na sila magkasundo, suddenly hindi na sila compatible and no longer willing to compromise. ganun talaga eh, people are complicated. and sabi nga nila, it's better to let go than ipilit ang isang bagay na hindi na talaga kayang i-save or di na nagwowork.

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  13. I've always believed that married couples will not always feel the "romantic" form of love. It will eventually burn away after years of married. What's replaced is mutual respect and that's what still keeps couples together. =)

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